NYC-Singles & Dating - It’s Human Nature to Want What You Can’t Have
Have you ever noticed that when something is taboo, you want it even more? Let’s say you’ve decided to go on a diet and suddenly, everything you can’t have looks so appealing to you - like the German Chocolate Cake, the Cookies and Cream Hagen Daaz, Belgian Waffles with Whipped Cream and Strawberries. The more it is forbidden, the more you want it. It’s just human nature to want what we can’t have. Well ladies, men are even more so that way with women. Biologically, men are the aggressor. Don’t ask me why, they were just born that way. They are hunters and we are nurturers. Let’s use the analogy of deer hunting. What happens when a man goes hunting for deer? It is human nature (and animal nature) to run from something that is chasing us. So the deer, sensing they are being chased, run. The hunters must then devise a strategy to lure the deer into a trap. The more of a challenge the deer has become for the hunter, the bigger the thrill when the deer is caught. Read more…
